IELTS Speaking: Friendship and Relationships
Friendship and relationships
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Module 1: Build-up & Foundations
Let's get ready by reviewing key words and useful ways to talk about relationships.
Teacher Instructions
1. Elicit personal relationship stories before moving into vocabulary definitions.
2. Check pronunciation of advice formulas and drill correct stress in pairs.
Learner Instructions
1. Complete the vocabulary checks and note down unfamiliar collocations in your book.
2. Practice speaking the sample advice structures aloud using your own life examples.
📖 Core Relationship Vocabulary
Review these 10 target words before testing your understanding below.
Task 1: Vocabulary Quick Check
Choose the correct word from the box to complete each context.
1. A true friend stays _____ in hard times and never tells your secrets to other people.
2. After a small fight, a good friend will _____ you and not stay angry for weeks.
3. You should be careful when sharing personal information with a total _____ online.
4. He felt very _____ when his best friend won a big prize and he did not.
5. It takes a long time to build deep _____, but one lie can destroy it.
🔗 Task 2: Collocation Matching
Match each phrase with its meaning.
💬 4 Useful Sentence Patterns for Advice & Opinions
Use these structures in IELTS Speaking Part 1 & Part 3 to express solutions and recommendations.
You had better + verb
Strong advice about a real problem.
"You had better talk to him honestly before this problem ends your friendship."
If I were you, I would + verb
A friendly way to give advice.
"If I were you, I would forgive her and give her another chance."
It is essential to + verb
Say what a good relationship really needs.
"It is essential to build mutual trust instead of being selfish."
Why don't you + verb?
A friendly question to suggest an idea.
"Why don't you ask a close relative for advice instead of worrying alone?"
🌟 Harvard Study of Adult Development
What Really Keeps Us Happy and Healthy?
The Harvard Study of Adult Development followed people for many years. Can you guess these two facts about it?
In what year did the Harvard Study of Adult Development begin? (Source: Harvard Gazette, 2023)
The people who were the most satisfied in their relationships at age 50 were the healthiest at what age? (Source: Harvard Gazette, 2017)
Topic: Friends
Now, let's practice answering common Part 1 questions about your friends.
How often do you meet your friends?
[Bài tập luyện nói]
"Well, to be honest, I only catch up with my friends once or twice a week. We're usually pretty busy with work, so we just grab a coffee at a local café on Sundays."
Useful Language:
- • to be honest - a phrase you say before you tell the truth
- • catch up with - meet a friend and talk about news
- • pretty busy with - quite busy with
- • grab a coffee - have a quick coffee together
Is it easy for you to make new friends?
[Bài tập luyện nói]
"Actually, yeah, I'd say I get along with people quite easily. I'm quite an outgoing person, so it doesn't take long for me to break the ice whenever I join a new gym class."
Useful Language:
- • I'd say - a soft way to give your opinion
- • get along with - have a good relationship with
- • outgoing person - a friendly person who likes meeting people
- • break the ice - start a conversation with new people
Do you prefer to spend time with one close friend or with a group?
[Bài tập luyện nói]
"I definitely prefer hanging out with just one friend. Big groups can be a bit too much for me, you know? With one person, we can have deep talks and speak about things that really matter."
Useful Language:
- • prefer hanging out - like spending time with
- • a bit too much - more than I like
- • you know - a filler that makes your talk sound natural
- • deep talks - serious talks about important things
How do you keep in touch with friends who live far away?
[Bài tập luyện nói]
"Well, my best friend lives in another city, so we mostly stay in touch through messaging apps. We usually send voice notes, and we make a video call every couple of weeks."
Useful Language:
- • stay in touch - keep talking to each other
- • voice notes - short spoken messages
- • make a video call - talk and see each other on a screen
Part 3: In-Depth Discussion
Now, let's try some Part 3 questions that explore friendship in more depth.
Why do some adults find it hard to make new friends?
Record your response below. Aim for 45–60 seconds, extending your points with reasons and examples.
[Bài tập luyện nói]
💡 View Model Answer & Key Phrases (Click to expand)"Well, honestly, I think the main reason is that adults are very busy. When you're a kid, you see your classmates every day, but as an adult, work and family take up most of your time. Also, a lot of people don't like meeting new people, so they stay quiet and don't start a conversation. It's not easy to build trust with someone new, either. In the end, many people just keep their old friends and don't look for new ones. That's why making new friends feels hard."
the main reason - the biggest reason
work and family take up - work and family use most of your time
build trust - slowly begin to trust someone
keep their old friends - stay with the friends they already have
Can friends you only meet online be as close as friends you meet in person?
Record your response below. Discuss both perspectives before concluding.
[Bài tập luyện nói]
💡 View Model Answer & Key Phrases (Click to expand)"You know, I'd say yes, they can be. Nowadays, people share the same interests through games or online groups, and they talk for hours every day. For example, I have a friend from another country, and we talk almost every day. Sometimes it's even easier to talk about your feelings online, because nobody sees your face. But on the other hand, you can't meet for a coffee or just sit together, and that's an important part of friendship for me. So I think online friends can be very close, but it's a bit different."
share the same interests - like the same things
talk about your feelings - say how you feel
on the other hand - a phrase for the other side of the story
a bit different - not exactly the same
What can a person do when two of their friends have an argument?
Record your response below. Suggest practical steps and caution against poor choices.
[Bài tập luyện nói]
💡 View Model Answer & Key Phrases (Click to expand)"Well, that's a tricky situation. First, I think it's important not to take sides, because that usually makes things worse. I'd listen to both friends calmly and let each of them say what they feel. For example, I'd call each of them separately. After that, I could ask them to meet for a coffee and talk. I wouldn't force them to make up straight away, though. Sometimes people just need a little time before they can say sorry. I'd also tell them that I care about both of them."
take sides - say that only one person is right
listen to both friends - hear what each friend thinks
make up - become friends again after an argument
say sorry - tell someone you are sorry
How have the ways people stay in touch changed in recent years?
Record your response below. Contrast past communication methods with modern habits.
[Bài tập luyện nói]
💡 View Model Answer & Key Phrases (Click to expand)"Well, I think it has become much easier and faster. Years ago, people wrote letters or called on the phone. For example, my grandfather still writes to his old friend by letter, but I never do. Now almost everyone uses messaging apps, and we send quick photos or voice notes all day long. That's great because we can stay in touch with people who live far away. But I also think the messages are shorter now, so conversations can feel a bit less personal than before."
voice notes - short spoken messages
stay in touch - keep talking to each other
all day long - for the whole day
a bit less personal - not as close or warm as before
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